Is there a cheat sheet on ‘How to have top-of-the-bracket BDSM sex?’ Experts want you to begin with communicating needs clearly, seeking consent, and surrendering completely to your primal instincts. Start by setting the stage, because an erotic atmosphere can heighten your and your partner’s senses multifold. Use scented candles, dim the lights or use soft coloured ones to raise the intimacy quotient, prepare a warm aromatic bath, wear racy lingerie (could be crotchless and/or bustles); basically, let your imagination soar.
With the ambience ready for your steamy encounter, it’s time to go berserk with your sexual aides. And here’s where we at Kamuk Life come in with our uber sexy ‘from-primal-to-feral’ BDSM collection.
Let’s walk you through what we know are essential elements for perfect ‘prowl and play.’
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Structured Cat Eye Mask to Unleash Your Inner Feline – Introduce an element of mystery and intrigue with this gothic-esque brand of eyewear that allows one partner to prowl with a sense of anonymity, enhancing the thrill of the chase. The mask intensifies focus and anticipation, making every touch and glance more significant.
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Ringed Collar and Handcuffs for Superlative Bondage Sex – Bring in a playful power dynamic in your lovemaking with these restraints that intensify the sense of vulnerability and control, adding an exciting edge to your session. The feel of cool metal against skin makes for a potent sensory experience.
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Leather Flogger for Unparalleled Sensations – Using a leather whip or flogger can make your session extremely thrilling and passionate. Use it with permission and intention, focusing on light, teasing touches rather than harsh impacts. The sound and anticipation of the whip can be as stimulating as the physical impact itself.
All said and done, don’t forget to inject oodles of eroticism and sensuality!
Engage all the senses to build seduction. Offer tastes of decadent treats like chocolates or strawberries, and explore textures with soft fabrics and feathers. Tease and build anticipation by using slow, deliberate movements and suggestive words. Delay gratification to intensify desire. Use descriptive and suggestive language to paint a vivid picture of desire. Compliment your partner's body, and express your fantasies and wants openly.
The key to a steamy ‘prowl and play’ session is a deep connection and mutual yearning. Communicate openly, respect boundaries, and prioritize pleasure for yourself and your partner.