To start with BDSM is one of the most preferred forms of deriving pleasure these days. As we can give credit to the main character Anastasia Steele from the movie The Fifty Shades of Grey, it has made things open in the minds of people who earlier used to keep the things behind the curtains. It has made to express their emotions possible towards fetish sex culture, which is not at all new. It is existing in society for decades. It was such a runaway bestseller that it has made those women also think over kink and have become curious about kink who actually are not into it in their personal lives. They love to and experiment with a kink in their life where power dynamics deal with in our daily lives and try to eroticized.
Why Women Love BDSM?
Black Domina Cat Suit
Women love spanking, bondage, or in submissive/dominant relationships, as it gives them space that allows women to ask for what they want and to own those desires. It is a quite refreshing act for the women engaged in it. In most of the cases it is seen that the dominant partner, whether male or female, tries to command a woman explicitly vivid her filthiest, naughtiest, most of the desires in order for them to be fulfilled. She is likely to react with a blush or, squirm or, in a dilemma when she is being forced to say what she wants or likes.
In this patriarchal world women are expected to be polite, pretty, and perfect to serve males in their life and their family when they become wives or, girlfriends as said by Dr. Paul Hokemeyer, a licensed marriage, family therapist, and certified clinical trauma specialist. Powerful women, who are at some leading positions at the workplace or dominating in their lifestyle might feel sexually powerful by choosing to lose their power. They show, as if they are being dominated from the surface, but in a real sense it is the woman, who holds the full charge of her body and her relationship when it comes to intimate sexual encounters.
What type of women enjoy BDSM?
Black Nylon Adjustable Hand Wrist Braces Neck Cuff
They like to be dominated by men, as per a certified sex therapist and somatic psychologist Dr. Holly Richmond. Any woman whether a housewife or, a lady with a gun in her hands or, a chairperson of a fortune company requires a great degree of reliability, and self-discipline. Here, when dominated, she gets free from making any decisions and the burden of responsibility can be released for a time. Going deep into the fact, it’s the highest form of power over men, when the desire to be taken is actually shown by men for her, thus making him lose his control and can’t help but ruin her, explains Richmond.
According to Lauren Eavarone, a New York-based marriage and family therapist specially focusing on sex therapy, that things may go wrong when any one or both parties' sexual interests are not being met. As when they get stuck into their routine life and excitement has not remained in their bedroom, BDSM plays a vital role. Even a small change can bring a lot of refreshing energy into their life. It gets more exciting when any of the two or both love to experiment, adventure, and an urge to do something new all the time, which may mean the introduction of top quality BDSM kit which helpful.
Therapy With BDSM
It has come up as a basis of kink, and it is the main form of sexual recreation, stress-relieving, and fantasy play sort of game giving a high level of entertainment for those who are involved in it. It is still taken up as one of the forms of therapy which treat any kind of trauma or abuse to depression.
Aleta Cai, a New York-based professional dominatrix has a vast network of clients around the country, has a pattern that is being used to nurture and push them. Kink plays its role as the key element to positive change, higher consciousness, and healing.
Read More: What is BDSM?
BLACK LEATHER BDSM KIT
Clients are given services and experiences in a wide range sometimes by whipping, fantasy play, restraints, or erotic hypnosis. Being a Dominatrix, she is there at the discretion and accepts the vows of her clients. Sex is nowhere to come in between, thus BDSM and kink can be taken as therapy just like a sexual experience.
Being a woman, she is empathetic to her clients, developing confidence and self-acceptance in them is the reason she like it.
In the opinion of Shannon, a kinkster for the last four years, it made her release the whole pressure from mind and body as she had a souring relationship with her husband. Then it came up as one of the ways through which she can indulge in her fetishes and interests without limiting herself, letting her fear, shame, and confusion go.
Women enjoy being in BDSM, they love to explore their body and assert themselves in the bedroom. Eavarone believes it can be an important aspect of one’s well-being and it is worth dedicating time and efforts to develop oneself. Women find it as one of the best ways to release their negatives, fulfill their hidden desires.