8 Best Tips For Valentine Sex
There's a lot of pressure on Valentine's to be the most romantic day of the year, though as long as you're both enjoying yourselves, you and your partner have pretty much nailed it already. But if you're still looking to add a little extra heat to your Feb 14th, check these tips.
Have sex *before* dinner
Think about it: you have a delicious glass of wine, and another, and another. Then the dinner, then the dessert, and all of a sudden it's midnight and you have work the next day. Full, buzzed, and exhausted aren't always the best circumstances for boning. So get it on before you leave for your date instead, and spend the rest of the meal basking in a sexy afterglow. And you know, more wine.
Or better yet, get it on the next morning
You shouldn't go into a holiday that's supposed to be fun all worked up over expectations of sex. If it doesn't naturally happen, that's okay! There's nothing quite like rolling over the next morning and whispering all the things you wish you had done last night into your partner's ear. (You can be a little late to work).
Buy each other one new sexy item for the bedroom
Be it a massage oil candle or a new vibrator, if your hope is to shake up your lurve making routine, commit to bringing one new thing to the bedroom.
Get *each other* chocolate
This one is pretty straightforward because... double chocolate!
Do something fun, rather than sexy
Some people are all about the candle-lit meal with the soft violin music, and if that's you, go for it! But if all the extra bells and whistles aren't really your style, it's easy to feel like you're forcing the ~romance~, which can leave you feeling anything but sexy. Instead, try an activity that focuses on togetherness and fun. Go bowling, see a movie, see a concert. An event that leaves you feeling connected might be more likely to inspire sexy times than a four-course dinner.
Get a (hotel) room
If you live with hella roomies, this may be the most considerate option provided there's a reasonable hotel deal you can track down. If not, an Airbnb getaway can give you guys the time to focus on yourselves, rather than your paper-thin walls.
Spend the day sexting
If you shoot off quick, sexy missives of what you want to do to each other throughout the day, come night time you'll have a hot script of your own to act out. Plus the build-up of anticipation is unbearable in the best way.
Get them a gift card that's really for you
If you really want to go all in on the This Is The Sex Holiday vibe, set a budget, buy a gift card to a lingerie store of your choosing, and write down your sizes with a note that says "you pick." They get to see you in lingerie + you get to keep said lingerie.
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